How long has my brother in law been with my husband?

I told my husband what happened and that I had been dealing with this for 7 years and I am not looking forward to the rest of my life with this man living with us, as it obviously doesn’t seem like he’ll ever leave. He has too many weirdnesses about him that I cannot deal with any longer.

Can a brother in law destroy your marriage?

Going on NINE years. It will destroy your marriage/relationship. You may feel guilty because it is “family.” Don’t. Your partner IS your family, now. Don’t let a free-loader take that away from you.

What is the custom of brother in law marriage?

BROTHER-IN-LAW MARRIAGE. Known also as levirate marriage; a custom whereby a man would marry his deceased brother’s sonless widow in order to produce offspring to carry on his brother’s line.

What’s the relationship between brother and sister in law?

When my 2nd wife of 37 very happy yrs died of cancer, her family attended the Memorial and burial of her ashes which I arranged, & they were very kind – particularly the women. In fact, when I remarried about 22 months later, my prior wife’s older brother & his wife attended the ceremony, met my new wife, & wished us well.

Can a husband leave his brother in law?

Your husband needs to choose. His brother or you. Be be prepared to leave. This early in your marriage,this is a big red flag and deal breaker. 2nd Mrmarklin. If your brother in-law is an adult, then he needs to figure his own life out. It’s pretty sad that a guy can’t help his brother out without losing his wife.

Where is brother in law living with US?

Location: Just sitting on my front porch in CO, filled with indolence and sound. This isn’t about your BIL, this is about the way you surface and resolve issues with your husband. If you can fix that, you’ll be able to resolve your BIL issue without having to go ask the advice of a bunch of anonymous folks on an message board.

How old is my brother in-law and wife?

He will never be able to buy a house or get an apartment now. He is 40 years old and has never been married and has no children. He has had 2 girlfriends in the past 7 years, with one lasting less than a year and one lasting less than a month. He is currently “talking” to a girl he met on the internet that lives 350 miles away.

Is there a marriage problem with my brother in law?

And that is the marriage problem they are talking about. You and your husband should be one and able to be adults and work through disagreements to come to mutually acceptable arrangement. The fact that you feel this way is the red flag that your marriage is failing and needs to be fixed.

Can a brother in law live with US?

We live in an apartment so rather small quarters we have been unsuccessful at finding somewhere and only have until the first. No other family members are willing to step up and help as we have found him a place by his daughter he can get into on the 1st of February but we have been unable to get a co signer that needs to be on there for 6 months.

What should be our focus our marriage or the brother in law?

I’m confused what should be our focus our marriage or the brother in law. By a very long way your marriage is far, far more important than your relationship with your brother in law and your husband’s relationship with you is far more important than his relationship with his brother. Your husband needs to understand this.

Can a brother be made to leave a house?

JW A As one of the joint owners of the property, the brother who is living in the house has the right to occupy it, as do you and your other brothers. He can’t be made to leave the home without an exclusion order from the courts, which your other brother would have to apply for.

What happens if you own half a house and your sibling owns the other?

Michael J. Tobin. Each Co-owner is responsible for one-half of the expenses and is entitled to one-half of the income regardless of whether or not they live in the house. Your brother is entitled to be paid one-half of the fair market rent, but he is also responsible for one-half of the expenses.

Is it time for my brother to sell the House?

The time now has come where we feel that it is time to sell. Unfortunately my brother is unable to buy the property as he is the only breadwinner and wouldn’t be able to afford a large mortgage. All siblings have agreed he can stay in the property for the time being having made it clear that he has to find another property.

How long has one of my brothers lived in the House?

One of my brothers has lived in the property for around 25 years. We all had a verbal agreement with my mother that he could live there as long as he needed to. We understand that one of my other brothers is now seeking to sell the house. Can he sell his share or borrow against it, and can he force the sale of the property?