When to turn to your mother for support?

When to turn to your mother for support?

If you have a healthy relationship with your mother, you probably often turn to her when you’ve had a bad day or are going through something painful. If you’re dealing with Rejected Child Syndrome, you likely hide unpleasant emotions from your mother or even from the world in general.

What did my mom do when I was at home?

When I am at home, I can choose to do what I want without being judged and without any enjoyment or relaxation spoiled. Looking back, I can see that for years my mind has been full of her demands, wants and toxic behaviour. There was no room for my own basic needs, never mind any wants, which might enrich my life.

What did my mom do to my dad?

I never wanted to hear it but basically my mum robbed him off his life / money which also meant that I as a child was affected. For instance savings my dad had for me to do well in life / get a place were all taken from dad while Mum did the runner.

Why do I resent my mom so much?

I don’t have anyone else in my life,… Mum never wanted to keep in touch with the extended family and after all I’m in a different country. That’s another thing I find that I resent Mum for, the fact that I have no other person to lean on family wise, she’s cut ties with them all apart from a couple that I don’t have any kind of relationship with.

If you have a healthy relationship with your mother, you probably often turn to her when you’ve had a bad day or are going through something painful. If you’re dealing with Rejected Child Syndrome, you likely hide unpleasant emotions from your mother or even from the world in general.

What to do if your mum is having a bad day?

“She may therefore be more predisposed to noticing negative rather than positive patterns at the moment.” Try to persuade your mum to visit her GP (or you can contact the GP, who won’t be able to discuss her with you but you can mention your concerns). Find a calm, happy time to talk to your mum.

Is it possible for my mum to be a good person?

My mum can be a lovely person – she’s kind, fun to be with and very supportive. She’s been a wonderful mum to me and is a fantastic grandma. However, in the last few years she has been pretty badly behaved and I’m worried about her. She seems unhappy and is exhibiting behaviour I would class as “acting up” if I saw it in my kids.

I never wanted to hear it but basically my mum robbed him off his life / money which also meant that I as a child was affected. For instance savings my dad had for me to do well in life / get a place were all taken from dad while Mum did the runner.