How did I overcome the regrets I felt after my mother died?

In a similar way, with the help of family and friends, I have learned to accept the fact that my mental health during my mother’s last days was just as important as supporting her while her physical health deteriorated. If an episode of LOST made it possible for me to return to her side, then an episode of LOST is what I needed.

How long has it been since my mom died?

When I find myself getting mysteriously emotional, it’s usually around this time of year. Me and mom. College graduation weekend. This week marks five years since my mom passed away. To say we were “close” is an understatement.

When did my mom ask not to leave her side?

Find out more about Everplans » About a week before my mom died, she asked me not to leave her side. She was in a hospital cot next to her actual bed at home.

What did I Wish I had done with my mother?

I wish I had spent every last moment with my mother, and I wish I had read the eulogy I wrote to her before she died. We exchanged many I love yous while she was sick, but the eulogy I wrote captures everything she was to me and will always be—and that’s a lot more than an infinite number of I love yous could ever convey.

Why did my sister take over my mother’s estate?

Your sister appears to have overstepped her role as executor, and views it as a free license to do as she pleases, and lord it over the rest of you. She is beholden to the laws of her state where your mother died, and must act accordingly.

What should I do if my mother dies and has no will?

If your mother was single, then you and your siblings as well as any surviving parents (if only one parent died), will receive your mother’s assets. If no parents are alive, then the estate passes in equal shares to you and your siblings. If your mother was single with children, then the estate would pass in equal shares to the children.

How can I take care of my mother without my brother and sister?

Forget them and if you have to cut them off. You need serenity and the best way is by focusing on you and your mother. I had to let it go. It gave me a mental breakdown and a weeks stay in a hospital. Carry on without them!! MeToo, I don’t you can ever prepare to have emotional support but you can prepare to be without it.

How did my sister take control of my mother?

My sister was left as executor but immediately joined with another sister to start controlling our mother’s assets. We have asked her to perform an inventory of our mom’s belongings, but she has refused and suggested she will keep my mother’s home and house possessions (which are mostly of sentimental value).