Is it OK to ask a child about death?

Is it OK to ask a child about death?

Before you answer, you can also ask the child what they think. That allows you to check what their understanding is. Adults also struggle to understand death and you might not be able to answer all the questions. If you don’t know the answer, it’s OK to say so.

Is it normal to have questions about death?

Questions about death are a normal, healthy part of living well. While you may have questions about the physical, physiological, and psychological aspects of dying, those aren’t the questions you’ll find here. And while I’m sure you have questions about the afterlife, philosophy, and religion, we’re not trying to provide answers.

Why is my son so obsessed with death?

My son is obsessed with death. Well, perhaps obsessed is slightly too melodramatic but something has piqued his curiosity about the state of not living. I thought it was going to be a passing phase of curiousness, a bit like what the other planets are called, or why there are holes in bagels, or how cars are made.

What happens when you tell a child that someone has died?

If you tell a child or young person that someone close to them has died, they may have lots of questions. You might be worried that you won’t be able to answer them. Below are some they might ask and suggestions for how you could answer them.

Before you answer, you can also ask the child what they think. That allows you to check what their understanding is. Adults also struggle to understand death and you might not be able to answer all the questions. If you don’t know the answer, it’s OK to say so.

How is life continuing after death of son?

Many years have passed since that day, but she still talks about him with such love after 40 years. I lost my dad last year and we’re still grieving, but to lose a child is the worst. I pray that one day we will be together again, all of us who have lost our loved ones, and I believe we will.

Why are there so many questions about death?

These questions are meant to inspire introspection and self-evaluation to help you improve your quality of life. If you find that you are contemplating ending your life, there is a qualified professional who is ready and willing to talk or chat with you here.

What should I do if my child asks me questions?

If you are unsure about how to answer any questions, you could ask the person’s doctor, nurse, a counsellor or social worker for support. Remember that it’s OK if you don’t know how to answer their questions. Here are some examples of questions children or young people may ask and the answers you could give.