Why do cheaters blame their partner?

A revelation of an affair is a devastating blow to any relationship, but when the cheater blames their partner for creating a situation that “made them” vulnerable to the affair, that usually puts the shock and hurt over the top. Quite often the men say it’s because their partner has lost interest in them, sexually.

What happens to a spouse after an affair?

Frequently the bitterness about the betrayal fuels the injured spouse’s anger for months and sometimes years after the divorce, making divorce recovery more difficult.

How many times did my husband have an affair?

I grew close to a mutual friend, and looking back, we connected emotionally. One drunken night about six months ago we kissed and then for the next four months this developed into a full-blown affair. It was entirely physical twice. It was a typical affair. We thought we were in love. Looking back, it was utter fantasy.

Can a woman forgive her husband for having an affair?

I had no choice but to divorce, as she would not stop her affair, come clean and apologize. My initial impression is that there may be a chance your husband can forgive you and remain married. But, I do not know the man, so this is speculative.

Do you need a lawyer if your spouse is having an affair?

However, if you suspect your spouse of spending large sums on their affair, then it may be worth the time and expense of having your lawyer sift through your spouse’s credit card bills and bank statements.

Frequently the bitterness about the betrayal fuels the injured spouse’s anger for months and sometimes years after the divorce, making divorce recovery more difficult.

What to do if your spouse blames you for infidelity?

This will help you to find out whether your spouse’s blaming stems from their resentment and grief or is a manipulative tactic.

Why is there so much blame in divorce?

So few of the “blame” reasons people offer for the divorce are, by themselves, an adequate explanation for the failure of the marriage. Most divorces are the product of a hundred small wounds, sins of omission and commission and failure to care for and feed the relationship.